Our Journey to Love

Each and every human being is born to love, and they will unconsciously seek love from birth until death. Many individuals think that sex is love, which is absolutely inaccurate. Sex is a physical act and love is an emotion. When sex is good sex with someone you love, you can certainly feel the expansion of your physical love with sex into an emotional love. This can be a short journey or a long journey which is ultimately dependent upon the circumstances of the depth of loving emotions that has been cultivated within you and shared with other people. Love as our emotional self must always be strong enough to balance out our thinking mind. If our thinking mind is living in fear, we will usually not have discovered the love that is within us as part of our human design, and if we even have a hint of love we can override our love with fear.

The love that we feel for another person is always teaching us some energy of a Dual Soul lesson, whether or not we understand our loving emotions. When we want to learn the truth of love, we must understand our loving emotions as an integrated energy of us as human beings and consciously use our loving emotions before we can become conscious of the internal love that we feel, which is essentially an energy of loving emotions at a lesser level. This helps us to understand that sex is not love. Sex is a physical act, and love is an emotion. We can feel the emotions of love without having physical sex, if our thinking mind has advanced far enough to engage with our loving emotions. If we are living with a closed mind, our chances of feeling the internal energy of love is very remote. If our thinking mind is strictly physically focused, we will not understand the internal love that is dwelling in our loving emotions.

Our thinking mind, loving emotions, and sensory response to life are all coming from the energy of our brain. Have we learned to think? When we have the ability to think, we also have the ability to know love as an emotion, if we are not suffering from intense brain damage. When people do not understand the truth of love, we can have abuse occur to a child, despite the fact that the adult may have interpreted their behavior as love. Love for the most part is an overused word, because many people that use the word love do not understand the true emotional energy of love that we must feel as a means of interpreting the word love. Love is frequently defined as physical sexual behavior also, which is not love. When we begin to compare the love that we feel for our family to the love that we feel for someone that is unrelated to us, we begin to feel the difference. Family love is a “soul connected” love which we live at greater depth in our heart and Dual Soul.

We may live in circumstances where we never see the person that we love, but in our heart and Soul we love them anyway on a deeper level, even if we cannot verbalize how we feel. Distant love is a love that teaches us more sometimes than the everyday closeness of physical love, because we will create a scenario in our mind that allows us to experience the beauty of the internal feelings of love. This can be a lesson of love for many people who experience death or divorce. We have friends, relatives, children, and family members that we may not see on a consistent basis, but distance does not interfere with the emotional love that we feel for them.

Love is an energy of loving emotions. Thought is an energy of the thinking mind. Life is an energy of our physical body, thinking mind, loving emotions, and Spirit Senses. When our life creates a distance between us and the person or people that we love, our thoughts can help us contact their thoughts and we can feel the love and the closeness of the physical presence as we think about them. One vital aspect of love that we must all remember is, “love is as love does.” Love is not just a word and it has very little to do with our sexual conquests, because love is designed within us as an emotion, which we use as a way of expressing the energy of ourselves. We can always feel the emotions of love towards our family, friends, and other special friends if we have learned to use our emotions of love. Many people will refer to their emotions as their feelings. Feeling are more easily connected to our physical reality than our loving emotional reality.

Learning to use our emotions of love is our challenge because in our physical thought process, we can think that sex is love, or love is sex. There is no necessary relationship between sex and love. Sex is a physical act. Love is an emotion. If we feel the emotions of love during our sexual relationships, we will be helping ourselves to grow and change. When sex is used as a physical behavior to release tension but without the emotions of love, it is shared masturbation, which has nothing to do with our loving emotions but is strictly a physical attempt to understand love in our choice of relationships.

Love is an emotion that is felt in our heart as well as our head and physical body. When we feel our "sexual need" only in our thinking mind or body, it is usually devoid of any and all loving emotions, therefore we can see that "physical need" is more accurate as a description of our sexual activities many times than love is. As human beings we have ventured out of the "cave" to understand ourselves as loving human beings. After thousands of years, we think that we are truly ready to look at ourselves. But most of our sexual behaviors are still physical and usually have no true loving emotions. We may encounter people with plenty of sexual drive that is secondary to the joy of friction, but without any semblance of love as a loving emotion, which always shows us that we have not grown enough as human beings to want, to give, and to share the emotions of love.

The human species is an evolving species. Most humans have more class and thoughtfulness than they did 100 lifetimes ago. Living our physical lives is our method of growth and change as a human species. This is precisely why knowledge is vital to our thinking mind. Without knowledge, we will not and cannot grow and change at the same level mentally, which allows our physical and emotional feelings to also change. Once we learn a lesson, we must live that lesson countless times to work out the details and to set it in place in our Spirit Consciousness. This is the reason that Spiritual Philosophy has been the way of learning since the ancient days of man's creation. If we repeat each day precisely like our last day, what have we learned? As we live our journey to understand and to live our love, we give ourselves an opportunity to grow and change in new and better understood realities.

This is precisely why knowledge is vital to our thinking mind. Without knowledge, we will not and cannot grow and change at the same level. Once we learn a lesson, we must live that lesson countless times to work out the details and to set it in place in our Spirit Consciousness. This is the reason that Spiritual Philosophy has been the way of learning since the ancient days of man’s creation. If we repeat each day precisely like our last day, what have we learned??? As we live our journey to understand and to live our love, we give ourselves an opportunity to grow and change in new and better understood realities. The most important method of change is to learn the difference between right behavior and wrong behavior. As a human species, we can look at history and our own personal life and clearly see the path that we have been living as our own method of learning. If we are living any level of lying, cheating, and stealing, it becomes very easy to see that we have a long ways to go before we can say hello to change. The basic change that we make within ourselves through our growth is to change from fear to love. As we change from fear to love, we stop thinking in fear and acting with fear in relationship to everyday life. This means that we essentially become more comfortable with ourselves, how we act, what we think, our willingness to grow and expand our physical life, and our wiling to share in other people's lives. Our change always requires that we live the "truth" of who we are.

The Ethical Values are our guideposts to change and growth. For instance, as we learn the value of Truth in our everyday lives, we can bring about a dramatic change in our Dual Soul growth. Truth is the most important lesson that we have to learn as a Dual Soul. What is the truth of us? What do we gain in our life by living our truth? Living any form of untruth allows us to “get stuck” in negative energy, which can take us years and years of multiple lives before we can overcome our lying, fear, and inequality that we are living in our lives and reflecting into everyone and everything around us.

Many times people ask me, “how can this happen?” Love can be felt within us from another person because love is an energy. We are energy as human beings. Unfortunately we have been taught that we are just physical beings, which is inaccurate because it is the love that gives our body life and allows us to be conscious of the energies of other people who may not be physically present in our life. Many times a “long-distance” love is all that we have. But long-distance love is a love that is being lived through the energy fields. When we understand that we are energy beings living in matter, we can understand how to connect with those we love, wherever they may be.

Energy is the eternal pattern of us. Our human body is our physical image that is at all times dependent upon our Spiritual Energy for life. When we can accept that we are both energy and matter as human beings, we can fill those empty spots in our heart by connecting with the energy of the person that we are missing. Sex is not love. Sex is a physical act. Love is an emotion. When we experience sex with both the emotions of love and a pleasurable physical response, we may have more of a conscious awareness of the love that we feel, but love as an emotion is a very strong energy field that can travel enormous distances to feel the love of another person. Poetry has been written about our “undying” love and it is helpful if you are feeling the loss of love to read some poetry and let it soak into your Soul and your heart.

Love as an emotion is an energy and it travels with the speed of light, primarily through our internal thoughts to reach the person that we love. We should all be sending energy as love to those we know and love. Love is a powerful stimulant that increases our love of life and other people, but most of all love is an energy which can strengthen the internal forces of another person. Love is the elixir that can heal the world and us if we are not afraid to live our love with other people.Love is the most important lesson of life that we are living to learn. Until we can love other people, we cannot love ourselves. So we have to ask ourselves that old and timeless question, "Am I worthy of love?" Every human being is worthy of love, simply because of our human design, therefore if we feel that we are unworthy of love, it means that we are not conscious of our human design and the power that is found in our human design. Anytime that we think our physical reality is our power, we have further to travel in our mind expansion than we may realize.

Years ago there was a common saying, “make love, not war,” which I feel is appropriate today as long as it is two consenting or married adults. Love has a strong positive energy that builds the unity and purpose of our physical reality, war has only destructive energies at all levels of interaction. Energy is everything, which makes it essential that all humans develop their internal consciousness of Energy as the force that controls their life. We have a choice, we can live love or we can live fear. Love is not synonymous with sex. Love is an emotion. Sex is a physical act. Fear is a negative emotion that rapes our thinking mind. The energy that we live is our choice, but it helps to know the concept and design of energy so that we can use our free choice of love with the wisdom to strengthen our human physical life.

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What is "the Divine Idea"? What is our "Intelligent Design"?

Our brain is the essence of The Divine Idea as our Intelligent Design. Our human design is Spirit Consciousness living in physical matter. Understanding this enables us to choose to live our healing ability and create a different life. Spirit Consciousness is the only true and authentic loving pattern of us as human beings. (Read my 8th book, Spirit Consciousness: Our Intelligent Design!)


The Divine Idea was the creation of spirit consciousness in human form. That is the Intelligent Design of Earth, on Earth. We as human beings are the Intelligent Design that must begin to understand ourselves before we can see the connection of everything on Earth. We are electromagnetic energy living in a physical world. We have electricity, magnetism, and physicality all within our own internal system. This gives us a hint of the Divine Idea, because the Divine mind has not only the mind, which is unlimited in its thinking and multi-facetedness, but  its loving emotions, and the infinite spirit senses. 


When we look at the patterns of how we have been created, and we look at the belief systems we have created, we see that we have never recognized the pattern of the Divine Idea of us, and we have never recognized the Intelligent Design of us, which is the Spirit Consciousness energy in matter. If we don't understand these energies, we have all kinds of belief systems, like a grab bag, which has tentacles. We are always energy living in matter. When we focus on the matter instead of the energy, then where are we? To keep the mind open, we must learn to live our multiplicity of energies. We are focused on matter in our world today, but energy is the eternal pattern of us as human beings!


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Once Upon A Time

Once upon a time there was a prince and a princess. They were not born of the same family but in many ways they could have been. The princess loved the prince with all her heart and soul. So much so that she grieved for his absence. The prince loved the princess very much too – but he was a man – and he couldn’t understand how he could love the princess as much as he loved himself. That wasn’t what he expected of love, so he began to think, to think of her as being too close to really love as a man should love his princess. So she became his sister and he spent time with her and cared for her but he was afraid to truly love as he knew a prince was meant to love a princess.


One day his princess was crying in her grief and the prince ran out of his castle to the top of a hill.  He looked up at the sky and opened his arms to the heavens.  Loneliness was in his voice as he shouted in frustration at the stars. At once his fairy godmother tapped him on the shoulder.


“Don’t despair my prince – life is as you want it to be. When you view the princess as part of you then you must love yourself before you can accept the love you have for her. But you are worthy of your own love too my fine prince. See how your kingdom loves you. You are perfect and beautiful in every way. When you can see it then the princess will never need to grieve again and neither will you.”


With that thought trailing in the air behind her the fairy godmother disappeared into the dark night and the prince found himself alone again on the dark hill.  The loneliness suddenly wrapped him in its heavy arms and he shivered. Thoughts of the princess flashed into his mind and he felt warm again and safe. She really wasn’t part of him after all, he decided. She wouldn’t be lonely – not like he was lonely. She would only grieve for a lifetime, silently, but he would be the one to cry.


He stood there in the night and thought of how each of them would be less without the other and he began to feel warm and safe. He smiled, laughing because he had never seen it before. They were truly special people but more different then he had ever realized. They could never be the same because she was female and he was male. He wasn’t making love to himself but to her when he expressed that love. Then he could truly love himself for knowing the difference. And he could truly love her because now it was all right.


The prince turned and ran down the hill slipping and sliding in the wet grass. He couldn’t wait to find his princess and say for the very first time, with all his heart and soul –


I LOVE YOU.

Who are we, without our loving emotions?

Everyone must stop and ponder these questions:

Who are we, without our loving emotions?
When we do not use our loving emotions, we react in life closer to the animal kingdom than the human kingdom, using our physical aggression and having no understanding of how the interaction of relationships occurs in our everyday lives.

Why are we constantly fighting wars on every level of society?

Why is murder a "sport" for some people?

Is it because we are not using our loving emotions that we fight wars on every level of our personal lives, society, business, and within nations? We could no doubt define ourselves with a few choice words such as unconscious, fearful, terrified, obnoxious, self-centered, being a "know-it-all," a bully, a fighter, and of course the list can go on and on. The truth is that when we are not living our loving emotions, we are living our fears, because we cannot live both simultaneously, yet without our loving emotions we have no conscious awareness of our fear, inequality, and untruth.

When we live our fears, we are living our fear of life, which makes us feel "less than," and in our "less than" we think that we are evening the score between the "haves and the have not's." We have no clue that we are energy and matter that is attempting to find our chemical balance so that we can release our fears and allow ourselves to become the energy Intelligent Design that we are meant to be as an internal energy design. As we learn to live our loving emotions and infinite Spirit senses simultaneously with our thinking mind, we are giving ourselves the tools to create internal change as an energy expansion. Learning to recognize our energy and precisely how we use our own internal energy of thinking is a goal of each life that we live as physical human beings. Without growth and change as physical beings, we cannot evolve as the energy of our Spirit Consciousness.

The Essence of Spiritual Philosophy

Knowing that love is an internal emotional design that helps our thinking mind to accept our internal patterns of growth, change, and evolution as a dual soul, helps us to see the wisdom of growth and change as an internal pattern of our Spirit Consciousness. Men and women alike have been using the fear beliefs as our functional awareness in life, which means that both sexes have been focused in the fearful thinking mind as the symbolic male thinking energy. Men and women share the identical human design except for the sexual organs and their internal network of hormonal glands. Once we can know and accept that our male thinking mind and female loving emotions are Spiritual partners in growth, we begin to see how we have been shown this lesson through the ability of the male and female to procreate a new physical life. Opening the thinking mind is the external symbol of our ability to accept the physical loving emotions, which creates new patterns of thinking and feelings that are being birthed within us. This has always been the essence of the teachings of Spiritual Philosophy, whether or not this divine energy of Spirit Consciousness has been understood by humans.  (Spirit Consciousness, p. 40)