Being a Friend and Making Friendship an important Energy within You

It IS the mind that builds your world. Your body and your life are the results of activity within your mind. It is our purpose to help you understand your life activity and to heal any bruises that you may be attached to. Releasing the fear from your life will allow you to understand the wisdom of integration and balance.

The mind has been created by what we call the physical mind, which is the intellect and the ego; the rational mind, which is the soul memories; and the intuitive mind, which is the spirit energy.

You visit each space individually. They are your interior castles, the mansions of your mind. As you grow in wisdom adn understanding you integrate these three facets of the mind until you have a smooth flowing channel of energy that circles through them all. This is known as integration. Friendship is one image of the lesson of integration.

It is my wish to encourage each of you to make friendship a very important energy within you. Be willing to communicate freely, openly, and truthfully.

Understand that giving and receiving in friendship means to give the energy that you wish to receive in return.

Being a friend is being willing to give and to receive openly, without judgment, and without resistance. If all of your relationships can begin with a very solid, truthful friendship, they will last you through a lifetime.

Relationships that are lasting have their own special benefits in the physical world as well as in the spiritual world. Knowing that you have a true friend that you can talk to when you "need" to talk, will many times help you maintain your balance within your physical world.

All relationships will benefit you in your soul evoution in a way that will be impossible for you to perhaps comprehend on a conscious level. The energy of friends is interwoven, intermingled, interpenetrated and inseparable.

The Emotional Lessons Confronted in Family Relationships

It is a belief in our world that the male should be strong and therefore not show emotion. This is a belief that family relationships challenge. If the male fails to show emotion, he denies his soul and spirit energy. If the female fails to show emotion, she denies her soul and spirit energy.

Family relationships offer the male an opportunity to be in touch with the soul and spirit energy of emotion. If the male denies the family relationship, he is denying the challenge of emotion. He is creating resistance to his soul and spirit energy within. This is also true of the female, but the male is used as an example because of the belief system in our culture that creates a learned resistance.

Some people who fear emotion will also fear family relationships, friends, and all other interaction with people. These people become the criminals in our world because they act without emotion. They live without emotion. They deny the soul and spirit energy within and they react only as physical beings. They do not love themselves and therefore they have no love for other people. These are lessons that are confronted within family relationships. If the denial remains as the controlling force within the physical life, the physical life will be focused upon fear of interaction secondary to the fear of emotion. These people will easily indulge in physical crimes against the physical body.

The total absence of feelings and emotions of the heart allow physical atrocities as lessons.In the spirit sense this is a choice of both participants, although this is a challenge for us to understand. If we observe the murders in our world, we will find many of them occur between family members or friends. The spirit energy of unconditional love agrees to the lesson which will trigger the emotion within. The event may even be chosen as a Karmic lesson for both participants. Understanding the lesson will balance the emotion within for all passive participants. This safety net of unconditional love is much stronger than our imagination is capable of understanding.