Steps to Healing

1st Step to Healing:

Change your belief system

2nd Step to Healing:

Change your behaviors and actions

Seek relaxation, the fun things of childhood that bring joy to your heart

Use simple excursions into exploring your life that are fun, spontaneous, and free

Share your home with someone you love

Encourage the relationships of families, friends to become closer and more supportive of individual and group giving

Generate love to light the heart and soul of everyone you meet

Share thoughts, feelings, and emotions from a core level

Communication improves appreciation for each other, and builds the respect that gives us the freedom to love totally!

Light up my life!

I spend a lot of time teaching the Ethical Values in my counseling and in my classes. There was a time in my life when I firmly believed that every human was born knowing and living the Ethical Values as the design of our Spirit Consciousness. The older I became the more conscious I became of how few people even knew the words "Ethical Values" so light dawned in my mind and I realized that we cannot live what we don't know. The term Spirit Consciousness is also a mystery to the average person, especially if that person is focused on "being saved." One of the bench marks in understanding our Spirit Consciousness is knowing that we and we alone are responsible for "saving ourself." When I was a child, growing up on a Midwestern farm, I learned how to plant a garden, milk cows, feed chickens and pigs, and overall to stay busy by doing what needed to be done next on our farm. This was a very active and happy life for me, where we lived as part of Nature and Earth. During my childhood years, I lived in an oil town where we could literally read a newspaper from the light of the many gas flares that were constantly burning from oil wells that were scattered over a fairly large area. When I was very young, I could not understand why the sky seemed to be on fire, but as I got older I realized how and why the sky was so bright and what these oil wells meant to the town itself. Now as I watch people grow and learn Spiritual Philosophy, I can see this same light phenomena as their faces light up with understanding and joy. Those who don't learn to understand Spiritual Philosophy do not "light up" in the same way that people do when they recognize their internal and eternal beauty as Spiritual Energy beings. My goal in life is to teach as many people as I can how to understand Spiritual Philosophy and how to let the "light bulb" of Spiritual Energy light up their own lives.

Our lesson is to learn to Love

Loving self is an awareness of ourselves as perfect at the core of self as a Dual Soul and Spirit level of energy, despite the physical dramas that we have created. It is this awareness and love of thyself that allows us to act with love, to think with love, and to BE love. Understanding yourself is loving yourself. Our lesson is to learn to love.

A Personal Search for the True Self

Being religious and being Spiritual are not the same thing. Religion by history has been a means of controlling the mind, Spirit and body of man. Spiritualism is a movement to understand the self and free the body, mind and Spirit into an awareness of its own energy form. Earth has never had a religion or culture that has not controlled man in some degree, in some way. Spiritualism gives the control to the self through God. Spiritualism is a movement of Love created from within the Spirit world. Spiritualism is based on the ancient knowledge that was shared by ancient Philosophers and in living the Ethical Values to support a better human and a better Earth.

Sometimes in today's Spiritual movement it is hard to get people to gather together. That is because Spiritualism is not a method of control. It is an internal process of learning the history of ourselves as human beings. You do not have to gather together for your energy to connect, but gathering together creates an advanced pull on all energy. It is the energy on the planet that will spread the understanding. It is a personal search for the true self. It is not a search for a leader. Indeed, following any leader other than God can be very detrimental to the Dual Soul and Spirit Consciousness. Attempting to follow Spiritual guidance, when you deny personal responsibility, will not be effective. For those who believe, it will require a commitment to change. Change is the miracle of the energy of man.

Choose Wisely

If you have a partner that is willing to grow with you it is a perfect way to strengthen relationships. Spend quiet time together. Practice positive communication on a soul level. Understand each other. Quiet down your lifestyle. Limit your reading to positive information. If it makes you laugh, enjoy it. If it relates nothing but war on any level, turn it aside and search for the positive reading of understanding and growth. Know that you have a choice of what your life truly is. Whatever you do, whatever you say, however you feel, however you think are all your individual choices. No one makes that decision for you. Every human has free will. Choose wisely.

It is with the loud music, the constant talking, the constant doing, the constant searching for news of the world and others, that we allow ourself to lose sight of us. Man understands the political world better than he understands the world of self. How can man make decisions that affect the Universe, when he can’t make decisions about what he should do in the next moment, what he should eat for dinner or which television program he wants to see?

The process of understanding and awareness is an internal process. It cannot be conducted as a scientific research project that studies other people. Man must first study himself internally, from the physical matter that he created as body, to the functioning mind, to the core self of his soul. Man must look within for the answers.

True emotional health is spiritual growth. It is allowing those soul memories to surface. It is understanding that we are more than our physical manifestations. It is being aware of why we are here on Earth. It is accepting responsibility for the creation that we are. It is loving, sharing, caring. It is oneness. It is honesty, truth, faithfulness, open mindedness, trust. It is non-judgement in a world of opposites. It is loving yourself. It is finding your balance of energies.

It is only through our understanding of the Ethical Values of our Spiritual chemical design that we truly know ourselves. As we know ourself, we change the world we live in to one of love and celebration of the life we create to share and learn.

Consciously Living Our Ethical Values as Our Spiritual Energy

Before we can truly change, we have to understand our true relationship with energy. When we are consciously living our Ethical Values, we reflect the energy of our Ethical Values into all of our thoughts, words, and actions as we interact with other people. We must look carefully at ourselves.

Learning how to consciously live our Ethical Values as our Spiritual Energy is the primary lesson for our Dual Soul, which means that all of the many lives that we live as physical beings are primarily focused on the growth of our Dual Soul, with each lifetime being focused on the lessons that our Dual Soul must learn before it can move forward in its growth and change. Each lesson that we must learn in this lifetime and during any other lifetime is always essential for us as human beings that must consciously be living the Ethical Values that create the precise pattern of our Dual Soul that is growing into our Spirit Consciousness.

Our primary challenge is to learn how to understand ourselves and the capabilities that we have been given to help us with our growth and change. As a human being we must look very closely at our thinking and our behaviors if we want to stay on our path of evolution as a Dual Soul that is growing into our Spirit Consciousness. If our thinking and our behaviors do not show what we have learned reflected into our physical reality, we are not ready to live our Spirit Consciousness, which means that we are not ready to teach what we have been attempting to learn.

Sharing what we think we know is not the same as sharing what we have learned as an integrating being. If our personal growth is our ultimate goal, we must rise above our lying, cheating, and personal camouflage before we can even begin to meet our goal. We have developed a trait as human beings where we sincerely believe that other people remain unaware of our behavior and our communication that is derogatory towards them. This can only be our belief when we do not understand energy and the personal and consistent reflection of our personal energy, which defines every word that we speak, every action that we are involved in, how we think, what we are saying to other people, and of course what we do with ourselves and our lives.

Join us November 20-22 as we learn together, focusing on Consciously Living the Ethical Values as Spiritual Energy. 919-545-9937 for info. Pittsboro Community House, Pittsboro, NC.

Being A Spiritual Person

More and more people are seeking the Spiritual path today, which in truth is the eventual path of recognizing all energy. This does not mean that all people who want to be Spiritual understand energy, or that they have any realization of the energy being emitted by themselves and other people.

Being a Spiritual person is basically all about learning the truth of information, which is a form of energy. Before we can open our thinking mind to consciously live our Ethical Values, we must learn who we are, how we function in the physical world as an energy being, and we must learn how to understand the eternal and internal energy sources that we are always living in our physical reality of life. If we have no understanding of who we are, we will judge other people as "less than" us. Once we understand our own internal energy, we learn to live our energy as total love and we learn to accept other human beings as total love. Our goal as human beings is to learn how to live our Ethical Values every day within our moment by moment physical reality, which supports the design of our Spirit Consciousness energy as the core energy of us. To actively live our Spirit Consciousness we must live our "love" as the energy of our human body throughout all of our physical life, that evolves from birth until death, and we must live this loving energy in total relationship to ourselves, our family, and everyone else that we know. When we can live our truth in our daily life, we will find ourselves feeling the Spiritual energy within us. We cannot lie, cheat, steal or live any negative behaviors if we want to live as Spiritual Beings.